Funerals and Weddings are one thing in common, it is a marker of a stage of life that can trigger people to feel many emotions, from sadness, fear, anger, and dread. Weddings can remind people that they are getting older or behind in life. Funerals can remind people that death is around the corner, and that the extreme grief of the loss.
Death can make people horny because when people are feeling sad, sex relieves the sadness. You want to feel something, anything, to feel alive. Sometimes people can get high through sex, drugs, and addiction (shopping, gambling, and drugs).
Because when you lose someone or something, you want to attach to another object to self-soothe. You don’t want to be alone with your emotions. Sometimes, the anxiety and grief of the loss can cause panic attacks and heavy chest pains. Sex can be soothing and help you attach to an object physically and have a connection. Even if the connection is not good for you. It’s temporary and a distraction.
When you look into the sadness, there is anger. Like an onion, if you peel the layers, behind the sadness, there is anger too. Anger or Aggression is a life force. Is not bad or good. The opposite of loss and death is life and aggression. Sex and Aggression are interrelated. That’s why when people are angry, they also get turned on and want to have sex.
Thank you for reading my thoughts on sex and funerals.
If you want to get laid, hit up weddings and funerals. However, if you want to deal with the grief and anger, hit me up for a free intro call!
